Here I am going through spiritual journey. My question to myself how do I stay motivated for this part of my life ? To workout it is easy, unlike most people it is not. To get where you want to be, you have to identify being someone else. This is true. If I wish to be like a boxer champion in my weight category i have to show up like a champion would do. To stay motivated alone is hard but I know 3 things can make it easier to be motivated.
Here are 3 factors:
1. ENVIRONMENT
2. VALUE
3. ENJOYMENT
ENVIRONMENT
I notice in negative places it is way harder to do anything. Even low vibration words will make me feel drain quick. Especially your friends who have low self confidence. They might have no ill intention towards you but their energy will bring you down. Here is an example:
A friend of mine who never been in a relationship, she had her heartbroken when she found out her crush already has a new girlfriend which is someone from our circle. She is a nice girl but she lacks being positive and most of the time she speak low about herself. She was the first one whom I share about my crush with. So out of nowhere I give her an update about things between me and my crush. It was a simple as we give each other hug in the gym and he lift me up infront of people. Her reply was “omg do it outside”
I stop and reply with “LOL” but was thinking…. oh this is coming from someone who never had a boyfriend before. She is happy for me but subconsciously think showing affection in front of people is a big No and not professional. I am all for public display of affection with my partner and I love it. That is my love language, physical touch. It has make me happy in a lot of occassion. And those things are assurance for me.
Like in anything you want to do or achieve, check in on your environment first. I want to create more abundance for myself and family. If I am surrounded by people who earns lesser than me, I am in the wrong environment. So every week I will make a goal to be in environment where people are making more money than me.
VALUE
If you have good values that you put to practice then this is makes it easier to avoid distraction. Once you avoid distraction it is easier to stay on your own path and you can be motivated again. One of my value is growth. Whoever in my life that include family that gets in my way of my growth will remind me to stay away from them. I am consciously thinking of it and I would say if I choose otherwise I would feel bad inside. 3 values I am working on are integrity, growth and optimism.
ENJOYMENT
There is something to really enjoy doing anything even if you don’t actually like it. In this case, seeing it in different perspective. Here is what people do when they don’t enjoy something, they look at everything that is wrong with the whole thing and keep talking about it. This is what people don’t understand about vibration.
This is how law of attraction works. If you are constantly complaining you are going to received only the same things you complain about. You usually send out bad energy and received exactly that. The few ways you can enjoy anything is to think of it in different perspective. If you want something to feel less heavy in your life like if you don’t like your job. Maybe you have nice pantry that you can enjoy a cup of coffee and you get to go for lunch while all being paid.
I have never use motivation for longest period of time to get anything done. Most of the time I rely on enjoyment by thinking of something with different perspective. Now I am thinking, how to use my values and environment to move closer to any of my goals. So if you been trying hard to stay motivated and has failed in the past, I recommend working on one of these in this post. Stay motivated! Don’t give up.
